Are Group Gifts Good Etiquette?
Rules To Follow Regarding Group Gifts
There are certain rules of etiquette to follow when giving gifts. One of the most difficult and confusing aspects of giving gifts is when you should or shouldn’t give group gifts. Below you’ll find some helpful information about giving gifts individually or as part of a group.
It’s Not Always Appropriate
If you have a special relationship with the gift recipient and it’s a special occasion, a group gift probably isn’t appropriate. For example, if your godchild is celebrating First Communion, group gifts really aren’t a good idea.
If another friend or relative asks you to go in on purchasing a group gift, politely decline and mention that you already selected something as the godparent (or whatever your special relationship is). When giving gifts, don’t feel pressured in any way. If you already have a gift idea in mind, then give a solo gift.
When It’s Okay
There are many times when group gifts are just fine. For example, if a co-worker is having a baby, all of the girls in the office might want to get together and give her a gift basket.
It’s Not For Everyone
Some individuals like giving gifts as part of a group because they have difficulty coming up with good gift ideas or they like splitting the cost of gifts with others. Don’t feel obligated to split a gift if someone asks you.
When you do go in on group gifts, try to give a gift that is equal to what each person of the group would otherwise give if not buying a joint gift. Get input from everyone who plans to purchase the group gift. That way you’ll purchase something that everyone is satisfied with and proud to give.
With a little bit of planning, giving group gifts doesn’t have to be a dreaded challenge.
Comments
Great ideas! The article reminds me of an embarrassing moment I’ve had a week ago. I went to a birthday party of the daughter of an officemate. I brought a very very big and expensive gift for the girl but was so ashamed to attend the party all by myself. So, I asked permission from the host if I could bring along a friend. Gladly she said it was ok. So I brought a friend with me without minding the importance of buying another gift. In short, we brought a group birthday gift. It was so embarrassing because the celebrant even commented that we’re supposed to bring two gifts. And the child isn’t at all tactless. She’s just talking about the truth.
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